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you, the

natural child

from creation, from the old-earth mother to you;
you and your baby, the natural child, have always been one

 

woman, mother and baby

Starting at the beginning of the past this story becomes material at conception and culminates at birth.

The learning process prepared by nature then continues with you as the teacher, the world and the future being yours to shape.

How is it that we parents, seem to replace beauty with hurt,  dreams with defeat?

Why is there so much pain, violence, intolerance and greed in this world?

Where is the knowledge and art of living, where is compassion, understanding and love?

Why does the child worldwide have to suffer so much?

Some answers can be found:

- in our ignorance of whom we really are
- the true origin of ourselves, of our children and of our brain.
- in the why and the how of modern childcare, education and the environment...

and in the silent mother

When we replace natures' primary intent of survival with our own intent of domination and social success, do we confuse our own survival process?

Contents

Introduction
What can I do?
Disclaimer
A sense of urgency

introduction
to you, the natural child
 

This site is about how your child can learn and develop  the way nature intended; Natural Early Learning. (NEL)

This is not a "back to nature" site. We humans were not intended to stay forever in the wilderness of the primeval forest.

On the other hand, living as we do today in the strange nightmare world of a hostile city, with broken down social life and deteriorating standards is surely not humanity's willfully goal

Humans were designed and created to live in a garden. For this we have all the requisite abilities and natural intent.

To live in a garden that sustains us, we must tend it and make it our priority

A natural child is just that; natural. We are speaking about the well-being of our planet, the people on it and especially about the well-being of your child.

This wellbeing can only be achieved through your child learning in the way she is prepared for, on the topics she is designed for. Manmade education is in conflict with natural learning.

Nature, whether we believe in Creation or in Evolution (or perhaps in both), is what was here long before man appeared on the virgin scene and begun to dominate, manipulate and change it.

We should be ashamed, even more than that, because of what we did and are doing to the nature that was given to us.

We destroyed, plundered and raped much of this once pristine earth. We have created a sick globe, a polluted mess from which the once abundant beauty and harmony are now difficult to recognize.

But  we have also done the same to ourselves, to each other and worst of all, to our children and their futures.

In our ignorance and greed we are pushing  our planet to the verge of destruction and also ourselves toward extinction.

And yet a natural child - your child, long before birth - has all the genuine roots and reality based in that original Old-Earth world, untouched by the modern man.

Nature has genetically programmed your child to learn and to develop.

Are we above nature, capable of improving on her works?  Hardly! Look at our track record. And that of the inhabitants of this globe.

We have failed miserably and made a mess of something once beautiful.

Do you want to offer something better for your child?

This is not a home-schooling site. We agree that the public educational system is badly lacking and that children educated at home by their parents fare much better.

We consider the public education harmful, even damaging, for a child.

But home-schooling is still often bringing the school home.

research shows that
school kills the love for learning!
read how!

This site is about holding on to that precious gift given by nature to your baby, the ability and the need to learn as nature intended it.
 

something the society around you does not recognize

WILL YOU?

what can I do?

it'll hurt to be different...
do you think you have the courage?

Your first steps are,

1- To recognize that there is something seriously wrong with the shortsighted way we are destroying the planet we live on, ourselves and the future of our children.

2- To recognize the fact that your little child needs you and not a care-taker system.

3- To recognize that the public school system dwarfs the natural development of a child replacing free natural learning, with a system that moulds the young mind to believe in and serve the needs of the educator.

4- To see that even when parents attempt to enroll their children in private schools or teach the children at home, the most important factor is not recognized, that of how nature planned and prepared your child to learn, the natural way during the first three years of life.

5- To be brave enough to step out of the crowd and to do something concrete about saving your child from becoming another blind victim.

In addition you could look closer at the unnatural, even criminal way we treat our children. Especially at birth.

For support contact us or other people who understand what is at stake.

Does this sound too radical for you? Nothing is too radical if it's for the good of your child and for mankind.

Please have a quick look at the ways we destroy ourselves and our environment. Think about how inhumane, corrupt, selfish and abusive we really are. Especially the male gender of the human species.

In Part 2 you can look how your child develops and what learning is.

In Part 3 you can see the practical application of the NEL program.
 

what your child will become
is in your hands
right now

 

to stand with others sharing a common disease can be more inviting than to be healthy alone

disclaimer

Those that find this site naive are smart.

This site is really for our daughter Nesyah ( a name which means 'Miracle from G-d').

It is also for all the daughters in the world who will one day, 'G-d willing', be mothers.

If we can give Nesyah the security, love and support she needs to freely take in all the wonders of this world and to know who she really is we would be grateful.

If we in addition can help her through the steps of natural development and protect her from the worst of the ravages of our sick society we would feel as having succeeded.

Regarding copyrights you might find quotations, portions of text, pictures and ideas "lifted" from various sources without credits. If it's yours, please don't be offended.

Nothing on this site is original, it's all been said and done before, as Ecclesiastes tells us "There is nothing new under the sun".

But we don't seem to understand this or learn from it.

On the other hand no-one seems to have covered the prenatal and zero-to three years on the web, so this is our contribution.

You might read "sweeping" or "general" statements and opinions that seem personal or un-founded without sources or reasons mentioned. This is deliberate!

Please don't believe everything this site claims. If you strongly oppose the views expressed here; thanks for visiting and let's depart friends.

We have tried to present to you here a 'Shulchan Aruch' (a laid table), laden with all manner of healthy and nourishing things as given by nature.

If your taste differs we understand. Popular intake is dictated by consumer spending that keeps the financial wheel spinning. After all an healthy economy is an indication of strength. (Strength=Power? No?)

Statistics show that the strong get stronger and the weak weaker. The rich richer and all that. Wonder why? You?

You don't have to believe our claim that popularity (democracy) is in disharmony with what we were designed and told (in the Bible) to consume. Food or otherwise.

We do not consider ourselves responsible if you get a stomach or headache, or difficulties in sleeping over the thoughts presented here. Nor can you claim compensation if your Mother-in-law (bless her) suddenly turned cool.

Furthermore, if you feel acute guilt feelings due to suspected personal neglect or ignorance in the past regarding the wellbeing of your child we recommend that you contact your therapist as soon as possible in order to rejoin the mainstream way of (non) thinking.

We also apologize to any source, living or electronic (is there much difference these days?), for possibly having lifted some of their ideas and looked beneath for the inevitable creepy-crawlies.

Also, this site is made and maintained by feeling and fallible humans without political or economical aspirations, humans that seek the well-being of their child, your child, all children and that of the future.

This well-being can be accomplished through the mother only. That's you.

If you have opinions and corrections (and of course you do), or you want to add something, please send it in.  We would love to hear from you!.

The names or other sources we have mentioned are not for the purpose of giving us credibility or authority for we seek neither but so that the less gullible visitor can go to sources.

but all we ask of you is to love your child
with all of your natural being
and by understanding
what the NEL program is all about

that's good love

  a sense
of urgency
(please ignore any unwelcome political thoughts)

 

The line of fire from Baghdad to Jerusalem-Tel Aviv passes directly above this computer.

Gasmasks at the ready and shelters stocked. So what's new?

Incoming missiles, like during Gulf Purim, might be intercepted by the defense system or they might fall short of the intended targets.

In either case the possibility exists (G-d forbid) that nerve-gas or biological agents will descend. Like a deadly mist. Or just the old familiar bang ripping through living flesh making it very dead, or just very much in pain.

The hour is upon mankind, and us Jews. Or is it?

Whatever; building a web-site that considers the rights of a woman to be the mother that's within her, the rights of a baby to freely decide with understanding the future of mankind, for the best of mankind is not a simple undertaking.

It's almost impossible to convey the idea that you, the woman, as a mother, really have the power needed to oust the evil from amongst us, to create a generation of tolerance, understanding, emotional contentment and intellect, stability, a generation different from those past.

Perhaps not the next generation, but the next, or the one after as the seeds you planted eventually bring forth fruit.

All this seems a task impossible in reality. A dream. Or not? Ask yourself. Because it's up to you.

You, the young mother:  Please be grateful for whom and what you are, for your baby and for the power given to you in deciding the future of mankind through your child.

If these lines, and the writer, are obliviated by a missile, then a woman somewhere might not have realized how powerful she really is as a woman. Even more powerful than the President.

And her opportunity to change the world to one without missiles would be lost.

there is a sense of urgency...

 

 

 

 

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the greatest gift
a mother can give
to her child
is the ability
to love herself

Yaffa Gaash

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if you play the violin
with love
your baby will probably too

your baby's launchpad
will be at
your level
 

what you are
will be
within your baby




 

during the first
three years of life

your child will develop crucial intellectual, emotional
and social
abilities

she will learn
to give and to
accept love,
to be confident
and secure,
to show empathy,
to be curious
and persistent

these abilities
will enable
your child to learn,
to relate well
to others
and lead a happy
and productive life according to
her own free will

that is,
if you give her
the opportunity

Young Mother

Only you are qualified
to make
the best decisions
for your baby.

Learn and listen
to others but
trust only in yourself
and in your instincts

points to ponder

you have both been duped to think that what everyone else is doing is the greatest and
the only way to go

young mother
if you have the strength see below
what is the best
that you can give
your baby

from way back
mothers knew instinctively
how to care
for their baby
today they don't

the natural mother
as she once was
is not needed any more
by our present way of life

so many mothers know
in their hearts
that what they do
is not the best for their children

we are against
mothers being manipulated
to cheat themselves
from being mothers

your baby is being denied the right to develop
to full potential

your childs rights
to a full life
is being compromised
by social and financial interests

your child is being robbed of its future.

present daycare
and school systems
dwarf your child's emotional and intellectual growth

what are your baby's rights?

we tend to
take things for granted but if we stop and check we'll be in for a big surprise

fast-food is a killer
for sure

even the famous
food-triangle can kill

your milk is for
your baby

cowmilk is for
cowbabies

formula is a
money making tool
 
the user is a fool

when you
add your thoughts
your knowledge
you give

does school kill
the love
for learning?

Yes!

education is
conditioning

education Is
not learning

help your child
learn